The Lemon Tree Coaching

Bonus Episode - Learning to Live with Imperfection

Dr. Allison Sucamele

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Perfection is a myth—but the fear of being imperfect can quietly shape how we show up in the world. In this episode, we explore the psychology behind perfectionism and how to build something far more sustainable: emotional tolerance for the messy, the real, and the unfinished.

We’ll break down tools from CBT, ACT, self-compassion research, and growth mindset psychology to help you:

  • Quiet your inner critic
  • Reframe harsh thoughts
  • Sit with discomfort without spiraling
  • Embrace small, brave acts of “imperfect exposure”
  • Write yourself permission to be human

You don’t need to be flawless to be worthy—you just need to show up with kindness, flexibility, and courage. Tune in and learn how to meet your imperfections with strength, not shame.

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